Jul 9, 2013

My First Half-Marathon



I became a runner accidentally. Well, not really by accident but it was something I never really desired to do.

Back in 2010 I was working out regularly and enjoyed taking a spin (cycling) class along with some cardio. Then a childhood friend challenged me to participate in a 5k.

I trained for one month and ran my first race with no problem. I discovered I actually liked to run and it helped me relieve some stress of being a single mom and graduate student.

Another very close friend of mine was a runner also and I asked if she wanted to train together for the half-marathon coming up that Fall. The race had grown quite popular in our town and I felt like it was a great challenge for me.

Plus it was taking place on my 30th birthday. I wanted to celebrate a new decade of my life with something I never dreamed I would accomplish.

So Corinna and I ran together sometimes at the YMCA, we shared our weekly running accomplishments, and were both excited as the race grew closer.

Then about five weeks before the big event I hit a wall. I was overwhelmed with school work, the training schedule, and trying to be both parents to three small children.

I called Corinna and told her I didn't know if I could compete. I cried to her and explained how I was just. plain. tired. She encouraged me to take a break from running and focus on my family.

Two weeks after that phone call I decided I wanted to finish what I had started all those months ago.

Corinna met me at our local Greenway and together we ran 10 miles. This was the longest distance I had ever completed and I can tell you, it felt WONDERFUL, CATHARTIC, EXHILARATING!

I cried a little as we ran the last leg, feeling so appreciative for this amazing woman beside me. She had encouraged me, coached me, and didn't let me give up on my dream.

Race day soon arrived and Corinna and I began at the starting line together. As the flare horn went off I watched my tall, athletic friend speed ahead of me. We each decided to run our own race and meet at the end.

Two hours and thirty minutes later I entered the track where our race was ending. I came around the corner and the first people I saw were Corinna, her husband Jason, and their two children cheering wildly for me. I got so emotional I didn't think I would finish! Of course I did and was so relieved.

That evening, Corinna and I along with my best friend and their spouses, celebrated my birthday and our earlier victory (we were both happy we didn't finish last!).

Corinna has been with me through some tough trials and coached me through several. I am so appreciative of her friendship and I miss her!

This photo is a sweet reminder to me of our friendship and a time in my life when I needed to push myself to try new things. I'm lucky my friend was there every step of the way.

Q2Y: Have you had a friend push you to achieve a goal? 


Linking up with Crystal Stine today for her Tuesday feature Behind the Scenes. Check it out and read some other wonderful stories. Don't forget to leave a comment!

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12 comments:

  1. Wonderful post! I, too, am a runner so your title and pic caught my eye! I'm hopping over from Crystal's page. Behind the Scenes I have definitely had friends push me toward goals. A few years ago, I had a good friend challenge me to join the gym and GO because I was struggling with post partum depression. I did, and she and I shared some wonderful spin classes together. It got me back into running too. I'm training for my 2nd half marathon in Oct 2013. I ran my first (BC...Before Children) back in 2004. So...here here for runners, goals, and time to rest in between as needed.

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  2. Thanks Jennifer! It's great to have friends that will push us and believe in our abilities to achieve. I too suffered from post partum depression with my first child. I'm so glad you were able to find a healthy outlet. Blessings!!

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  3. I love this post. I have several friends that have supported me in my desire to reach a goal but there isn't one that actually pushes me and encourages me to stretch beyond what I think I can do. You are bless to have one that will.

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  4. Thank you Amy! Corinna is certainly a special friend to me and I appreciate her friendship so much. Blessings to you!

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  5. Stopping by from Behind the Scenes...

    Everyone needs one of those friends... one who will push us and not allow us to give up. Who will kick our butts and then cheer us on! Glad to hear to went through on your goal. Definitely something the be proud of!

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    1. Thanks for stopping by Alana! You are certainly right, we all need those friends who make us better! Be blessed!

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  6. This is sweet...and congrats on your race! I'm a runner, too, but a half marathon seems so far off. We'll see! :) Happy Tuesday!

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    1. Thanks Mel!! I was very intimidate at first about training for the half but as I crossed the finish line I was so happy I did it! And you can do it too. My goal was to not finish last :) Blessings to you!

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  7. I love the smiles in this picture...perfectly capturing a race well done. So indicative of what Heaven will be like when we get to the finish and God is the one cheering for us because he sees His son Jesus in us instead of our mess. And total kudos to you for training, especially being a single mama. That takes time and discipline...what a wonderful thing to be able to teach your children. I wanted to do a full marathon before my next big birthday. I think I will try for the half! :)

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    1. You can do it Angie!! I wanted to give up so many times but had great support (as shown above!) and I just really wanted to prove to myself I could accomplish something that big. I'll be your cheerleader for sure!!

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  8. That's such an incredible accomplishment! I have tried running and have discovered that I do not find it any of the nice words you used ;) But I'm in awe of women who can do this!

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    1. Thanks Crystal! It was quite a big deal for me and I look back on that time with fond memories.

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